"fail-fast if you forget to handle an ExceptionGroup" really a feature? (Do we call this out in the PEP?)
We may believe that "except Exception" is an abuse, but it is too common to dismiss out of hand. I think if some app has e.g. a main loop where they repeatedly do something that may fail in many ways (e.g. handle a web request), catch all errors and then just log the error and continue from the top, it's a better experience if it logs "ExceptionGroup: <message> [<list of subexceptions>]" than if it crashes.
There's also code that catches Exception, logs the error and some relevant data, and then re-raises it. The logged error may go to a more specialized destination than the generic traceback, and the log message may contain additional data that's only available in that stack frame.
So I think there are enough serious use cases that we should do what's best for those use cases, and not try to lecture users about abuse of the idiom.
I don't know what we would have done if we were building Python from scratch. Possibly we would not have BaseException at all, and the whole mess would go away. (But there are some good reasons why we introduced BaseException, so I don't know that that would really be a better overall experience.)