I think the best place for it would be as a new method "set_noinherit" for file and socket objects or as a new function in the os module (thus the implementation should probably be rewritten at the C level).
Indeed. Can you come up with a C implementation of it? I think it should be a function in the posix/nt module, expecting OS handles; the function in the os module could additionally support sockets and file objects also in a polymorphic way.
This works until the queue is full (whose size was specified in listen()). THEN the client will get (10061, 'Connection refused'); as you already explained.
That's for accept, yes. For send, you can continue sending until the TCP window closes (plus some unspecified amount of local buffering the OS might do).
However, sometimes a subprocess might crash or hang. Now what happens if the server program is closed and then started again? On Linux, no problem (more or less). When the server program is closed, the subprocess will be killed by the OS (I think), and the socket is released (perhaps with a few minutes delay).
That's not true. The child process can run indefinitely even though the parent process has terminated. You may be thinking of SIGHUP, which is sent to all processes when the user logs out of the terminal. Regards, Martin