You could say the same about everything in the recipes, every one-liner like "def identity(x): return x", and so on. But most such things aren't used that often, and there's a cost to putting them in the stdlib—more for people to learn and remember, more code to be maintained, bigger downloads, etc. So just saying "maybe it would save some copying" isn't an argument for adding it to the stdlib.
Adding OrderedDefaultDict as a docs recipe (as OrderedCounter already is) might be worth doing.
Reorganizing the docs a bit to make it more obvious (by better highlighting __missing__, and making it clear that it's a method of dict rather than something special about defaultdict) seems even more likely to be worth it. If someone has an idea of how it should read, just file a docs bug and submit a patch and see if whoever's in charge of that area says it needs to come back here.
Of course, and that works out of the box.