should "self" be changed?

[zipher]

On Tuesday, May 26, 2015 at 11:40:20 PM UTC-5, Ben Finney wrote:
> zipher <dreamingforward at gmail.com> writes:
> 
> > Arrgh.  Sorry, that was meant privately...
> 
> I'm glad we saw it publicly, so that we get more of an idea how you
> treat people.

Ben, he asked for it.  Stop assuming.

> That kind of homophobic slur is inappropriate from anyone in this
> community. Kindly cut it out altogether.

Ben that is so presumtuous of you!  He and my acts were completely homo positive.  I assure you.

Perhaps you are hiding something?

Mark
P.S. You can respond privately.