[Tutor] happy holidays!

[Bob Gailer]

My holiday (and everyday) wish is that we be in touch with our deepest 
needs (love, contribution, autonomy, creativity, recognition, etc).

That we notice in what ways our holiday customs, habits, behaviors meet or 
fail to meet these needs.

That we communicate our needs honestly to those in our lives and ask them 
the questions above.

It might be that we discover that parties, gifts, cooking, decorating, 
spending, etc. doesn't meet anyone's deepest needs.

  It might be that open honest communication will go much further to 
satisfying our needs.

Invite your friends and loved ones to debrief the holidays in this light 
and to create next year's in a way that is more satisfying,

Bob Gailer
bgailer at alum.rpi.edu
303 442 2625 home
720 938 2625 cell